There's a song titled "Dont make me over" by Sybil, if you dont know it check it out. Its about a woman whose asking her man not to change her now that she's in love with him. This is a problem that happens to both male and female way too often. A woman meets a man and after he commits to her, she wants to "fix him up" despite the man feeling comfortable with himself. She wants to change how dresses, how he talks, his friends and his job. NOT COOL LADIES!!!!!!!
Women faces this problem also, a man meets a woman whose a little overweight and after a few months of having sex with her, he decides that he wants her to lose wieght. I believe that if you meet a person a certain way then you should not try to change them. If they weren't to your satisfation when you met them then you should have left them alone and found someone who fits the image that your looking for. Its different when your trying to introduce someone to new things, but when your trying to make over your mate there is going to be problems. The changes your suggesting can be harmful to a person's selfesteem. Your basically telling them that something is wrong with them and your not happy with them. Just food for thought people......
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