Tuesday, October 27, 2009

Spike Lee vs Tyler Perry.SMH

I was shocked and a little angered by the comments Spike Lee made about Tyler Perry. For those dont kno what I'm talking about please google it or Youtube..... My first love had always been movies. Before I wrote my book, I had wrote a sceenplay that I had hoped to turn into a movie someday. Due to lack of funds however i was forced to put that on hold..........for now. Growing up I had always admirred Spike Lee, not just for his work but for who he is. Thats why I was shocked that he would throw shots at another brother openly infront of white America. If he had an opinion and felt a certain way, he should have spoken to Tyler Perry in private man to man. Sorry Spike I love you but I cant respect what you did and the way you went about it. You may not like Tyler Perry's film, maybe its not your taste, but you have to respect his drive. Here is a man who went from being homeless to becoming one of the biggest names in Hollywood. Yes we need black films that bring awareness and moves us, but we also need black films that makes us laugh........ Why is it a problem for a black film maker to poke fun at himself, whites do it all the time......Example: Married with children...... There's obviously a market for it, his movies are making millions of dollars. Bottom line is Spike is older and more experienced than Tyler, he should be trying to help him up, instead of breaking him down.....................

Saturday, October 17, 2009

Ten tips on how to survive your woman's pregnancy

We all know that a woman being pregnant is a beautiful thing. She is bringing life into the world and its a very special time, but for a man those nine months could be a nightmare........ So I've put togeather a list of tips for men on how to make it through those nine months without losing your mind......... and a lil blood.

Tip number 1- Dont argue with her. Let me say that again to reinforce it. DON'T ARGUE WITH HER!!!!!!!!!! Coz your gonna lose, even if your right your gonna be wrong at the end of the arguement.... and your gonna end up apologizing and feeling like shit. Here's what you say when a conflict arise... "Your right and I'm sorry" and shut the fuck up.

Tip number 2- Keep her fed..... A hungry pregnant woman is a angry pregnant woman, so feed her. Take her out to a nice restaurant once in awhile and cater to her cravings.

Tip number 3- Learn how to duck.... This tip is just incase you didn't follow tip number 1..... Cause whatever is in her hand she's gonna throw it at you..... and she will be aiming directly for your head.

Tip number 4- Tell her she's beautiful. You'll get mad points for this.

Tip number 5- Give her plenty of hugs. She's real emotional during these months and needs that support.

Tip number 6- Dont buy anything big for yourself. If you do you better not let her know, coz your gonna have to resort to tip number 3 again.

Tip number 7- Stop hanging out and partying. She cant do any of those things and since you help make the baby, she expects you to take that ride with her.

Tip number 8- Buy a book on expectant mothers...... You aint really gotta read it, just keep it around so she can see it. Again you'll mad points for this.

Tip number 9- Stop messing with your side chicks.....I mean it, for them nine months you better make sure that any woman that calls your phone is a relative.

Tip number 10- Is simple, remember that if she aint happy your not gonna be happy......... So make her happy.

I'm no Dr. Phil, but I'm on my second kid and these are the things that I've learned. and you better believe I had to learn tip number 3 the hard way.

Thursday, October 15, 2009

Sacrifice is the price we pay for the good in our life

I often wonder why the bad is so much easier to believe than the good. Why I often question when a women tells me she loves me and quickly accept it when she doesn't??? Why when I recieve a gift I look for the strings that are attached to it???? Why when I find joy I await the pain that I believe will surely follow??? I wonder if this is part of my character and personality. Something I was born with, Or maybe this the way I built myself. Designing my heart never to be broken.
I know I'm not the only one....... Sometimes behind her nasty attitude and slick talk is a woman whose been hurt. Maybe when she doesn't sleep with you, it isn't because she's playing hard to get. Someone before took advantage of her and trust doesn't come easily anymore. Maybe she pushes you away out of hopes that you will pull her closer. She Builds walls not to keep you out, but to see if you love her enough to climb over instead of walking away...................... We give up too easily. "Sacrifice is the price we pay for the good in our life"

Saturday, October 10, 2009

Its been a while

Whats up people..... I know its been a while since I've posted anything, I've just been busy preparing for the birth of my daughter Zaina Campbell. Kinda nervous about having a little girl because I cant raise her the same way I raise my son. My son acts up and I rough him up........ How am I gonna rough up my daughter????SMH.... When I'm in the streets and my son gotta pee, I just let him pee on a car. I know u ladies are probably laughing at me saying thats no big deal but for a man it is..... At least for me. Then I'm gonna have to deal with boys and her wanting to go out.SMH. Then she's gonna wanna wear tight clothes some day.....Lawd help me. One thing I am happy about is that I've always treated women with respect and I've never done them dirty. Coz u kno Karma is some real shit. I have a friend whose a dog, I mean a real piece of shit when it comes to women and he has not one but three daughters. Soooo u kno he be worried.
Other than that I been good, took a break from writing, but as of today I'm back on it. I've decided to put out another book while I'm waiting for a deal. I've also been entering short story contests. One thing I've learned from friends who are up and coming rappers, You always gotta keep grinding and putting out material. Their work ethics is crazy!!! I have alotta respect for them and they're who I turn to for advise. I'm back on it so keep ya eyes open people.