WORDS

"Sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me" Who ever came up with saying must have had no concept of life or the make up of a man. Your body will heal from the physical damage done to it, but words leave wounds on the heart, the mind and the soul........ and these wounds are the hardest to heal. Some may take years and some never does. We all know that words hurt women............. we know this because they cry. Women have this luxury. I call it a luxury because its something a man can not do after someone close to him uses hurtful words. I doubt that women know how much damage they do to a man during an argument. Certain things should not be said to a man by his woman and all ya'll ladies kno what they are, because every woman knows her man and knows what subjects are off limits, but you choose to use them anyway. Sometimes it would be better if you hit us with a baseball bat, because that would hurt alot less. Time will pass and you may make up, but those words are never forgotten. Sometimes a wall is built from those words, seperating you from him and thats when another woman steps in. Some men are dogs and they cheat because they just want sex, but some men......good men cheat for this reason. The next time u get into an argument with your man and you feel like saying certain things to him, stop, think about it and ask yourself if its worth losing him......